meet bahar,

An environment rooted in t r u s t can only feed creativity and p l a y .

 
 

  • Vibrator Girl 2022
    Squidsberry (credited as Intimacy Director) 2022
    RachelOrmont.com 2022
    LemonBoy Magazine 2022
    Vienna 1913 2022
    GULP 2022
    Runaway 2022
    Pair of Thieves x Cash Studios (Commercial) 2022
    Plastic Lips 2023
    LemonBoy Magazine 2023
    Sweep After I Sleep 2023
    Djuna + Lillith 2023
    Level Three Erotica 2023
    The Shadow Wrangler 2023
    Self Help Me (credited as Intimacy Director) 2023
    Other People’s Bodies 2023
    ROPE 2023
    Move With Me 2023
    The Truck 2023
    Reflection 2024
    I’m Really Scared I’m Dying TBH 2024
    In The Flesh 2024
    Hollow 2024
    NYRO-MAX 2024
    Karoumi 2024
    M.U.B 2024
    Bareback Acres 2024
    Cherry’s God 2024
    Playing with Fire 2024
    Down the Shore 2024

  • Bennington College, 2014
    BA in Theater and Visual Arts

    Planned Parenthood, 2018
    Sexual Education Cornerstone Certified

    National Council for Mental Wellbeing, 2021
    Mental Health First Aid Certified

    Sexual Harassment Prevention Training, 2021

    Cintima (formerly Centaury Co.) , 2022
    Certified Intimacy Coordinator

    National Society of Intimacy Professionals (NSIP), 2023
    Camera Basics for IPs

    Theatrical Intimacy Education (TIE), 2024
    Best Practices

  • bahar emigrated from Shiraz, Iran, and now resides in Brooklyn. After receiving a BA in Arts with a focus on Performance and Theater, their interest in Gender and Pleasure-based Sexual Education began. For the past five years, they have been managing and teaching workshops at The Pleasure Chest, a legendary, 6,000 sq. ft, Luxury Erotic Boutique in the Upper East Side of Manhattan.

  • “It was really helpful to have someone else responsible for making sure my boundaries were respected”

    “I just wanted to let you know that I had a great time working with you. I definitely felt more comfortable and cared about as an extra because we had you on set!”

    “…had an IC on the job, and I had never done that before. I’m very glad I did it, I want to do it anytime I have any sort of nudity or intimate scene. They did a great job squaring away a nudity rider, talking to the actors, and making sure everybody was comfortable with what was happening, working with the cast and crew to make sure they were comfortable and well informed, and maintained a closed set. It was just a real wonderful experience, and it facilitated the scene really well.” - Producer Daniel

they/them

an Intimacy Coordinator and Sexuality Consultant based in NYC, bahar’s roots are in performance, theater, and sculpture. Their work focuses on pleasure, the body, queer theory, kink, consent, and sex. After years of coaching individuals privately, to conducting full-scale workshops, they are skilled in the art of holding space for deep understanding. bahar believes that there are so many ways to tell a story, and the ability to unleash the imagination and creativity to tell them well lies in a trusting environment. Through their background as an actor and a consultant, bahar is able to set the grounds for educational, accurate, realistic, safe, and replicable intimate or otherwise high-intensity scenes for all on a set.